About marriage proposals

 About marriage proposals 

There was my brother's friend in unizik Anayo from mbaise that was serious about marrying me after seeing me for the first time at my cousin chioma wedding at ontisha all saints angelican church onitsha  then I arrived late only met picture taking and reception.

He never approaches me for sex.

He just wanted to settled down that day he came all the way from portharcourt to find me and after we talked and eat together.

 he gave me 3 apples which I took home and eat alone when I slept at night I saw where celebration was going on in my place but I and my family was in valley struggling to climb up to the top while the guy's family where on top enjoy themselves neglecting my family in the valley.

The next day I quickly told the guy what his planning will not work. He kept asking me why but I didn't tell he why till he got to portharcourt. 

And he was telling it was something he would v used prayer to pray out if I had told him. That was around 2015/16 this happened there are something that DNT required but paying attention to that was my case paying attention to the warning.

That is how the guy went back to portharcourt married another woman and they had twins baby boys together and lost his job at the same time. 

I listen to my vision alot that is what is guiding my choices like a lamp to my feet  and lighting onto my path.

This is why it looks like am persistent on Tochukwu Dum not because am a home breaker or husband snatcher but because Tochukwu Dum made a grave mistake because I never told him we had a matching future.

 I only told you your own and didn't tell you my own part of the his future I saw.

Whatever God want to achieve with both of us, no wrong marriage decision he entered into can stop it.

Because when all Christains will be joining back to one Catholic family he will be standing in judgement before me as divine  marriage counsellor.

Instead going to go and make the same mistake he made causing a chain reaction.

That is part of what has kept me single all this years not because men are not desiring and asking for my hand in marriage. 

But because I want to stick to what God has revealed and has in stock for me irrespective of the name callings and odds against me.

And you Tochukwu Dum are still feeling unperturbed instead of hithering to the warning you are in a marriage that will collapse in your eyes because of not asking appropriate questions.

Maybe calling it just a dream like my family too reasons  and threaten and subduing me with psychiatrist hospital for.