Talk to date date to marry marry to serve God

Talk to date,date to marry, marry to serve God.

A man that knew me from Facebook slide into my dm greeted and I greeted back 

then he sent in his two picture I told him nice picture.

 then he wished me a beautiful Sunday and I replied same to you.

 then asked him to what do I owe this august visit.

 He told me friendship.

i told him I dnt do friendship with men.

he asked me am i a lesbian?

 I told him No that I dnt do friendship with men doesn't make me a lesbian.That it's just that what men call friendship is sex so I avoid there friendship I just talk with them.

He said so you hate sex ? Are you not married?

 I told him am not married just that I live a celibacy life I practice what I preach strictly. 

Then he said accept a video call. 

I told him no problem.

He now said did I ask you for sex? I only ask for friendship and a video call.atleast I will not have sex from where I am now am far away in Asia.

I told him I know you didn't ask for sex but what can be demanded in the future can be discussed from the day go am visionary I think ahead.

He said why not wait till then.

I told him I always lay my foundation before building that why do you want to build without a foundation.

He said I started with a wrong foot that I dnt suppose to bring this up. you made a good mistake.

So I told him but you said you wanted friendship? 

The friendship needed to be define.

This is  because people talk to date and date to marry and marry to serve God. 

He ask when did friendship become sex?

Then I told him this is  because men say one thing to a lady but mean another thing.that is why a lady must learn to set boundaries with a man.

It's from just talking that you get to know the value of the person and the value you share with someone from another background and a foundation of a beautiful thing are laid.

He said

Nnem we are no longer kids.

You are not getting younger, neither do I

I told him That is no reason to change the order of thing  because you are in a hurry you turn things upside down.no no that is not me.

I know nobody is getting any younger but all I desire in life is to make and do things right that pleases God.